Saturday, August 23, 2008

Best Friends.. what does it means..


Best friend(s) should mean someone with whom one shares the strongest possible kind of friendship. But in the real world.. sometimes I found a lot of people use the word "best friend" without using the true meaning of it. Maybe they should use the term "friendship" instead of "best friend".

Friendship should mean a closer relationship (without a personal relationship) whom one shares with his/her association (which should also closer than association) with some degree of intimacy between them.

Unconditional friendship should refer someone to a degree of best friend. Which they should also understand that some means of possessiveness might leads to the stage of un-comfortability in the other hands.

"Both men and women can become possessive in relationships, often to the detriment of the union. Ironically, the more possessive a person becomes, the more their partner will likely struggle to be free, hence making the person feel an even greater need to control the situation. It is a vicious and emotionally draining situation" taken from http://www.sedona.co

Quite true, especially when the person who actively become possessive in a relationship did not understand what they do.

A Nice poetry by Ashley Montgomery

A true friend never walks away
A true will always stay
A true friend looks out for you

A true friend will guard your secrets
Like a precious gift
A true friend is there for you
To give you a helpful lift

A true friend tries to make you smile
Tries to replace that frown
They may not always succeed
But they rarely let you down

These arms for you are open
This heart for you does care
And when I think you need me
I'll try to always be there

I'll listen to your fears
I promise not to laugh
Comfort your falling tears
I'll make this friendship last

I'll keep you near to my heart
I'll always hold you dear
Even when we're miles apart
Even when you're here

I hope I am to you
Everything you are to me
For the friendship we have
Is a special one indeed.





Sunday, August 3, 2008

RT CHIKI ZOEHRA



My deepest prayers and wishes are always with you my dearest best friend, Chiki Zoehra...

I'm not good at it.. when it comes to write something about you! it's difficult to know what to write.. it's so sad and painful to even start writing. However.. I tried so much to write something about you... Chiki Zoehra.. my best friend..

We went to primary school together, it was 25 years back.. we used to played together and do some funny stuff on our spare times.. 

I was so lucky to know that you were here at that time.. It was last year.. when I was on my interview session.. I met you again.. after so many years. 

We met at long john silver.. you wore your glasses and your cute shoes. We had so much fun on the next few hours.. chit chatting and exploring each others. I still remember that time quite clearly.

Until then, we became closer and closer.. we were regularly met each other and sort of knowing each other even better.. We've had shared our deepest secret as what best friends always did.. You were really fast to understand me. I always hide behind you every time I need to meet some old classic friend... You know what it means rite? =)

I understand that you've been having some busy time with your own life, until then yesterday was come. Aim told me that nay nay sms me and asking if the news was true. I was so damn shocked! tried to call your best mate here to check the news.. but seems I didn't find the answers. I called your sister then.. and when i heard she was crying on the other line.. I suddenly start crying.. couldn't believe that it was true.. You leave me on my birthday. So sad.. but somehow I believe that this is the best way that GOD has given to my loved one. I am so glad that you slept with your pretty face and your best smile!

Good bye my friend. My prayers are with you always.
Thanks for being there for me. Thanks for being such a marvelous friend. My smart, kind, care and loving friend. A very good mom for Kashel.. Chiki Zoehra may you rest in peace.